Category Archives: BDSM Play

Thoughts and discussion about types of BDSM Play.

BDSM Lifestyle Terms

So often, when we first start out on this journey, we are confronted with a language that is foreign and find ourselves wondering…what does THAT mean? So I’m providing a list of commonly used BDSM Lifestyle Terms to give you … Continue reading

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Marriage and Spanking in the Bedroom: Thoughts on Intimacy and Trust

Guest Blog Post from The Black Toy Chest by Madison Berlin When my husband and I were dating, I had never been spanked by anyone before – not as a punishment or even as a playful smack. He introduced me … Continue reading

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How to Use a Cane for BDSM Impact Play

When we hear the word cane for the first time, we may think of an old man using a thick, curved stick to walk. And while you can certainly use something of that nature should you choose…there are so many … Continue reading

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Body Worship for the FemDom couple

Body worship for the FemDom couple can be a wonderful way to improve the D/s aspect of your relationship and reinforce the Female’s Dominance and the male’s submission. What is Body Worship? Worship is defined as: The feeling or expression … Continue reading

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BDSM Warm-up and Aftercare

Warm-up and aftercare are important in BDSM play.  There are some who enter this lifestyle cautiously and taking baby steps, learning and asking questions before they leap into action. And there are those who are just too excited to wait…so … Continue reading

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